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Figured out I'd need new pals that give a damn bout what I post ^^

I post mainly Steam related shenanigans and MOTHERFUCKING DRAGONS

If you want follow me, tell me here I'll follow back <3

(Tho I'm not much in there to spend  hours on dashboard)

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  • Mood: Amazed
Let's just suppose for a while that you have some guy that's just a friend, and someone that's your best (one of your bests) friend.
The friend, you don't know him that much, but you know your best friend lots.

Then you notice that there's some sort of issue going on between your friend and your best friend. You know it. So suddenly, we have some choices to make regarding this;

"I know that the most logical solution for the problem is to sit up and talk with the other party, and reach a conclusion to such issue. It would be better if I also get my best friend into the table to settle things up. I'm pretty the other person is reasonable and will end the issue once an agreement is made.
After all I understand that talking (Not fighting or avoiding) is one of the best methods to solve problems, globally"


Instead of that solution, I chose this

"I would rather stay quiet and just help my best friend, while doing my best to ignore/avoid the other person. At the same time I wait for a good moment to just force that person out of my way. That will help the situation and help the other person solve things peacefully, because ignoring, leaving away and acting like nothing happens totally did not spark the current issue we are facing right now"

Seeems a veryyy logical answer to the problems. Right. Because when there's some issue with ppl I know, I either try to help, or not say anything, not silently side with someone and leave the other to rot, making things worse. Is not that something like that happened in the first place, right. /s


The second option 'might' work if the party we're talking about is unreasonable, just a bad person in general, a troll or w/e that doesn't deserve to reason with, nor even a slight drop of sympathy or understanding, or just someone that gives up easily over a situation, or w/e.. It DOESN'T work if you know the other party wants to solve the issue, but needs someone that know both to do, someone that wants to fight over their ideals, etc.

The "fuck you" option is not good. It doesn't fix. It doesn't help.
Is it really worth it to force more issues out of something just cause...?

Would you rather 'force someone' into a path that clearly just bring more drama instead of actually solving the situation when possible?

You can of course, 'assume' that the situation will just solve itself magically, most likely because the other person just give up after everyone just don't give a fuck about it or them. After all, our patience has a limit. Is not that if I persist with that behaviour for months and months the other party will be forced to take some action, provided the will of that person is high enough to solve things, even if such action doesn't end up in a good way.


"Okay, now I know that I indirectly helped to worsen the situation, while I could have clearly helped to solve it in a good way."
"Yet I will continue with the same behaviour, expecting things to solve magically because 'I think' that the other party will just plain give up and stop "trying to solve things" while I don't give a fuck."

In the end it just translates to
"I will do my best, even if I don't realise it, to worsen up the situation even more by doing  almost exactly the same thing that sparkled the issue in the first place"

Don't get me wrong. That logic path 'works', as I said, provided the will (Or desire) of someone to reach some sort of conclusion that benefits everyone (Not just one party).
If that doesn't apply, it's  just recipe for more drama.


Let's (try to) apply this line of logic to the real world, shall we?

Some country has a conflict with another. "The observers" (Third parties, such as UN) know about it. They can choose to mediate and help the issue to be resolved, or just ignore and watch 'to see what happens'

In this case, the UN decides "To see". And while doing it, one country (Let's call it Country A) just ignore the demands or issue that the other country has (Country B)-
As such, we end in a place where Country A has an issue while Country B doesn't give a fuck.
Un is watching, but doesn't do anything.

Then what happens? Country A decides to wait out to see if there's some sort of response from Country B to solve the issue. Months passes without direct responses from Country B. Yet the issue A has cannot 'just be ignored and left away'. Country A must do something!

Country A then is given a multiple choice path; give up and let B 'get away', force a confrontation with B to solve the issue, or keep waiting to see if someone (UN, or the international court) steps in and help.

Noone will help of course, and A can't just give up, so they're 'forced' to take action.
Country B still doesn't give a fuck, until A uses military force to tackle the situation. Then the real issue happens. People die, stuff like that. UN could have stepped in before the situation escalated that much, someone could have done it. Country B could have tried to talk, they didn't. They didn't care.

After being led to such extreme action, the UN says "Well you know what? F*ck you Country A" and Country B acts like a victim, then everyone blames A.

"We had no choice!" A states. Noones gives a damn. Situation is worse than before and still B doesn't care, after all, B brought in 'friends' to attack A so A was forced to retreat.
Then just UN leaves Country A alone, to fight it's own fight, noone cares, except some isolated cases that were just sided with B or didn't care at all just wanted to know...

Will that really help the interests of every party?
Wasn't it way better to be more humane and TRY to solve it, at least a bit?

That is up to you to decide.
  • Mood: Sadness
SR as in SteamRep, yaay!


No before you ask, I don't get anything from it, it's voluntary. Just a pat in the back and the feeling of helping others <3

Maybe some ppl will appreciate me more, dunno.~

(And yes I feel a bit better, thank you ♥)
  • Mood: Amazed
No, it's not.

When your dad and sister take you to the plaza to 'adopt a pup' while you're still not ready, they still taking the choice in 5 mins, such important decision in such short time. And I had to be there, enduring because the thought of it just makes me remember how my lovely Lola died on my eyes.
Yes, it likely will go off with time, but such thought will likely haunt me forever. And having a 'new pup' on the kitchen just reminds me of sweets moments that can only make me sad with time. I can't consistently go there. It has been a long time since we had a pup on my house, such moments.
My parents brought a pup at home and I don't knwo it's species, it's name, it was all their decision, I have to just ignore it and accept with time. But sadly, that is not the only problem I have.


When some friend you considered one of your besties, suddenly tells you that "he doesn't know me", despite all the time we spent together, I know there's something wrong. Don't know if with me, or whatever. But I just don't want to be used again like the salad fanatic. If I'm being too nice and oyu're just with me to use me, then get out. I want real friends which I have little, and less ppl that just talk to me for the sake of it. On the same way, I can't commit on a friendship if I don't know what the other feels about me is right.

Sometimes I start chats with new ppl, but I just don't receive the same treatment and excitement that I provide, and then I quickly lose interest.
And then sometimes I get chats and ppl that are interested and excited to talk to me, but I don't realise it or I plain don't find the other interesting enough, so probably I end up killing the interest of the other.

What kills me the most are those that I consider close, but they don't. They don't seek my contact, they rarely do. There are a group of 20 or so ppl on Steam that I labeled as "favorites" but I just have regular chats with 7 or so. And skype is less regular even. I don't really have a person there that I'm constantly in contact with. Yes I chat daily with some, but by regular I mean that I am able to do voice chats and hang out with a group of friends, which surprisingly, I don't have. I am in some group chats, but I don't have the will or the need to engage in voice chats. I wrote about this before, but it's mostly because I'm not native english speaker, so my accent is not perfect and I make mistakes. Then because I need to think more before speaking and I can't usually keep up with convs. Last because I can type faster than speaking, so I don't really see a practical use besides 'having fun'.
Many say I have a 'funny voice' or awesome, idk. I do record fun stuff yes, but if I don't have the courage to be constantly with others, then it's no good.


And regarding the salad fanatic, I wish I could find another way to fix a situation other than just brute force. But seems that the path that they led me was that, and I can't just give up. Guess that finally someone I know decided to step away, won't blame them. But they didn't help in any case. I wish there would be someone that would actually be willing to step in an help both, but of course, their own policy is to just ignore and ignore and force me to make choices. Whatever.

For my daily life tho, the pet issue, deaths and stuff just takes me into an uncomfortable situation, where I 'feel depressed' but I can't feel it at the same time, cuz I'm on meds. The result is that I don't have the will to do productive stuff, and I just want to stay here on the PC, doing what I can do. But I don't want to go outside, I don't want to go 'to where it happened', I don't have reasons either.

I 'want' to do stuff, I want to study and I want to learn stuff, say I got a tablet I want to learn to draw, but this whole 'thing' just keeps me down. I don't really have someone that tells me "Hey, did you do that today? Did you try, did you improve, are you okay?". Maybe some friend asks me if I'm okay, which is normal, specially if I show signs that I am not okay. But that's not my point, that someone cares for my real life enough to ask how I am doing with stuff.
Yes that might make me uncomfortable deep inside me, but it's like I need someone to step more.

We all makes mistakes, that's no doubt, I make mistakes but I mostly learn from them. I'd wish I wouldn't be so stubborn in the whole friendship thing, being keen and easy going to believe in others I feel I should believe in.  On the other hand I wish that some ppl would be more respectful with me and not just do stuff that I clearly don't like.  For their own sake, I don't hide info, if someone really wants to be close to me, they can just, dunno, search what I wrote, erm stalk me? I don't say that's bad if you want to know me, I prefer that to just being naive and doing blind steps. If I am interested on being friends with someone I certainly search about them the most possible info so I don't screw up that much. In the end I don't want other "salad fanatic" that just lies about their real behaviour and give mixed messages that confuses me. I'm not perfect, duh.

And yes, when I write something long I feel that few actually care to read all, because, unsurprisingly, there's not a whole lot of ppl that actually would care enough to know me more.
And no, not just to make me feel we're close to just tell me that you don't know me later. Hope he at least have the decency to complete what is owed.
  • Mood: Depressed
Got this


Extraversion    |||||||||| 38%
Stability |||||||||||||||||| 77%
Orderliness |||| 11%
Accommodation |||||||||||||||| 66%
Intellectual |||||||||||||| 58%
Interdependence |||||||||||||||||| 75%
Mystical |||||||||||||||| 66%
Materialism |||||||||||||||||||||| 100%
Narcissism |||| 16%
Adventurousness |||||| 25%
Work ethic |||||||||||||||| 66%
Conflict seeking |||||||||||||||||| 75%
Need to dominate |||||||||||||||||| 75%
Romantic |||||||||||| 50%
Avoidant |||||||||| 33%
Anti-authority |||||||||||||||||||| 83%
Wealth |||||||||||| 41%
Dependency || 5%
Change averse |||||||||||||| 55%
Cautiousness |||||||||| 33%
Individuality |||||||||||| 44%
Sexuality || 8%
Peter pan complex |||||||||||||||||||||| 91%
Histrionic |||||||||||||||||||||| 91%
Vanity |||||| 25%
Artistic |||||||||||||||||| 75%
Hedonism |||||||||||||||||| 72%
Physical fitness |||| 11%
Religious 0%
Paranoia |||||||||||| 50%
Hypersensitivity |||||||||||||||||| 77%
Indie 0%



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  • Mood: Lazy

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Figured out I'd need new pals that give a damn bout what I post ^^

I post mainly Steam related shenanigans and MOTHERFUCKING DRAGONS

If you want follow me, tell me here I'll follow back <3

(Tho I'm not much in there to spend  hours on dashboard)

sjru.tumblr.com/
  • Mood: Amazed

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Sjru
Sjru
Argentina
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Just a quite shy dragonite that studies music and sound, works in Steamrep and made a stupidly big brony group on Steam.
I don't draw!, here you'll see dragonites and ponies of dragonites, cuz I love them =D
Dragonites are the best!♥

I'm generally quiet and don't start chats until I see that you are interested in me♥ , so try to break the ice! If you want to chat, just add me on Skype or Steam (But comment first!) love to make new friends ♥!

My favorite games are Dota2 and Civilization! (I only play coop on civ tho)
I love questions and stuff, so if you want don't hesitate into asking me stuff! = D

Or just go to my tumblr or ask.fm!
I also have twitter, follow me ♥


▷Twitter◁ twitter.com/#!/Sjru_st
▷Tumblr◁ sjru.tumblr.com
▷Ask.fm◁ ask.fm/Sjrust
▷FurAffinity◁ www.furaffinity.net/user/sjru
▷Weasyl◁ www.weasyl.com/profile/sjru


Hope you have a great day =3~
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HippityHoppity28 Featured By Owner 6 days ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Hello friend! Umm. . . It's Nikki from BronyNet. . . I have a different account now than this one. . . . :icondjxbrony28:
I was wondering if you could check it out if you haven't yet.

Thanks!! ^^
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Sjru Featured By Owner 3 days ago
Ohh sure =D 
I'll watch x3 
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HippityHoppity28 Featured By Owner 2 days ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thank you! ^^
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Sherwood-McCloud Featured By Owner Edited Feb 4, 2015  Hobbyist Filmographer
Hey, thanks for that watch! I have to say, you have an adorable OC!

I have a soon-to-be Dragonite in my Pokemon team, which I'm currently training up.
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Sjru Featured By Owner Feb 5, 2015
Ohh yeah xP I saw you left my group so I checked on 
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ZekeroXBlade Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thanks for the watch! ^-^
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Sjru Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2015
welcomes ^^ 
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Techoh Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Thanks so much for the watch. ^^ (lol, I will definitely be able to "tell the time" from it. Get it, "watch?" As in.... Never mind, I couldn't resist making that terrible pun that had just come to mind. X3 *ded* Seriously, though, thanks. :) )
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Sjru Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2015
x3 no problem =D 
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MCPZR Featured By Owner Jan 11, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
I appreciate the watch. So, you found my dA through Steam, right?
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Sjru Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015
Yep
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YukiDoesArt Featured By Owner Jan 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thank you for watching! ^-^ Hope you'll like my future work! ^3^
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Sjru Featured By Owner Jan 5, 2015
Hehe welcomes :3 
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Cowboygineer Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2014
Thanks for the watch!
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Sjru Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2014
welcomes ^^ 
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1665kyle Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2014
Yo yo Sjru! Thanks for the watch! *flufflehugs* ^w^
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Sjru Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2014
welcomesss x3 *squeee*
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Cody-Maverick Featured By Owner Dec 15, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thanks for the llama! :w00t: :hug:
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Sjru Featured By Owner Dec 18, 2014
Welcomes =3 
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Americum7 Featured By Owner Dec 9, 2014
Alway's gonna be a close friend to ya Sjru! Feel free to talk to me anytime! Rwar!
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