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>Making yourself an opinion of someone despite never talked to that person

Save yourself your own opinions before being influenced by anything. Do you own damn research. 

You can chose to believe a source, or not. We all want to be right in any case. The key relies on how far you'd go with that info.

If your opinion about someone changes just because of some text, and not by interacting directly with that person, then clearly you need to reconsider it.

Furthemore, if you don't know that person deeply you can't just make yourself a bad opinion, that's fluff.. Of course, if you hear bad stuff and you see bad stuff and that bad stuff happens to you, then you can make an opinion, but even so, it doesn't mean that your point of view about someone is right.

You don't know if the person you had a bad experience with showed you all it's personality. But we have to assume it, because you want others to know your personality, you want them to know how to react to you. So technically, you shouldn't hide yourself. Be yourself, and others will react to you for what you are.

Noone is perfect. If you believe someone is perfect you're wrong. They're not. We all have flaws. We all have certain issues with ourselves in some way. 

If you have a "perfect" point of view out of someone, you'd be surprised and dissapointed once something doesn't go as planned related to 'em. Either, using some suffix to classify that person (Oh that's an angel! They'd never do something sketchy! It's a demon, don't trust it!) is dumb.

You can argue that certain ppl are bad by design, or you really know they're bad. That's true if everything points to it, but it still might not be 100% true. You'd never know.

For that, you should stick to your own opinions, and don't let yourself be 100% influenced by a external factor.

Yes it's way too easy to 'believe' something, since the info is just thrown at you and we are usually too lazy to do our own research.

Ultimately, we have different approaches to conflict, some ppl just have aggressive approachs, and chose to just fight/send threats or whatever without trying to understand completely the situation or trying to fix peacefully. Others are in the middle ground, but have little patience, or just being influenced and forced to chose a side. And last are those that try first a pacific approach, ways to solve it, give hints, wait out a long time before taking another approach to the conflict. Yes, being 100% 'peaceful' doesn't work everytime, except in some cases, as well as being 100% overly aggressive doesn't work all the time (And it work less). Finding a middle ground is neccesary, as with human nature, we need to solve conflicts, and not always things end up being as expected.

In any case, we should try first a peaceful approach, even if the thing seems hostile from your point of view. Just a tiny bit, if you're not peaceful tho, you'd just escalate the situation for no reason.  And by peaceful I mean that you try to understand the things, and not outright accuse others, specially if you're not directly involved.

As a society, (Or for me, at least) we aim to reduce the level of aggresiveness to an acceptable level, (Current human mind doesn't allow for utopian societies). I try to help the cause by having a certain, more open mindset. Doesn't mean that personally I am flawless in the term of public relations, noone is. 

We make mistakes, we learn. More importantly we can't learn without making mistakes, and sometimes we need more than one mistake to learn, it's on the brain. 


Last question would be if you, you as a person, look to improve your own points of views by being more open, not closed and conservative. We need to learn to forget & forgive, not having permanent grudges.

That's my opinion.

  • Mood: Worried
: sjru.tumblr.com/post/108604502…

(BTW I feel better bout my pet)
  • Mood: Irritated
A motorbike just killed my poodle...

my pet.

he didn't even stop.

pbs.twimg.com/media/B7a7q78IMA…
  • Mood: Sorrow
You're awesome <3


Keep it up!~

BTW I have an ask.fm ask me something? x3
I love questions!


ask.fm/Sjrust
  • Mood: Joy

Loves:

Chocolate

Dragons

Parties

Games

 

Hates:

Not being called a dragon

People claiming he pastes birthday comments

Bad latency

 

Plans of attack:

Death basket

Gift basket with Chocolates, Dragonite plushies, a steam gift card, and a new router. Put a death claw in said router. Give to Sjru.

Failed attempts: 3

Notes: Death Claws do not fit in routers

Priest’s Feast

Seduce a priest. Tell him the only way you will marry him is if he eats Sjru. He eats sjru. steal his car keys and drive away.

Failed attempts: 2

Notes: Its hard to seduce a priest because I am not a little boy

 

Sauce: docs.google.com/document/d/11G…

  • Mood: Joy

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>Making yourself an opinion of someone despite never talked to that person

Save yourself your own opinions before being influenced by anything. Do you own damn research. 

You can chose to believe a source, or not. We all want to be right in any case. The key relies on how far you'd go with that info.

If your opinion about someone changes just because of some text, and not by interacting directly with that person, then clearly you need to reconsider it.

Furthemore, if you don't know that person deeply you can't just make yourself a bad opinion, that's fluff.. Of course, if you hear bad stuff and you see bad stuff and that bad stuff happens to you, then you can make an opinion, but even so, it doesn't mean that your point of view about someone is right.

You don't know if the person you had a bad experience with showed you all it's personality. But we have to assume it, because you want others to know your personality, you want them to know how to react to you. So technically, you shouldn't hide yourself. Be yourself, and others will react to you for what you are.

Noone is perfect. If you believe someone is perfect you're wrong. They're not. We all have flaws. We all have certain issues with ourselves in some way. 

If you have a "perfect" point of view out of someone, you'd be surprised and dissapointed once something doesn't go as planned related to 'em. Either, using some suffix to classify that person (Oh that's an angel! They'd never do something sketchy! It's a demon, don't trust it!) is dumb.

You can argue that certain ppl are bad by design, or you really know they're bad. That's true if everything points to it, but it still might not be 100% true. You'd never know.

For that, you should stick to your own opinions, and don't let yourself be 100% influenced by a external factor.

Yes it's way too easy to 'believe' something, since the info is just thrown at you and we are usually too lazy to do our own research.

Ultimately, we have different approaches to conflict, some ppl just have aggressive approachs, and chose to just fight/send threats or whatever without trying to understand completely the situation or trying to fix peacefully. Others are in the middle ground, but have little patience, or just being influenced and forced to chose a side. And last are those that try first a pacific approach, ways to solve it, give hints, wait out a long time before taking another approach to the conflict. Yes, being 100% 'peaceful' doesn't work everytime, except in some cases, as well as being 100% overly aggressive doesn't work all the time (And it work less). Finding a middle ground is neccesary, as with human nature, we need to solve conflicts, and not always things end up being as expected.

In any case, we should try first a peaceful approach, even if the thing seems hostile from your point of view. Just a tiny bit, if you're not peaceful tho, you'd just escalate the situation for no reason.  And by peaceful I mean that you try to understand the things, and not outright accuse others, specially if you're not directly involved.

As a society, (Or for me, at least) we aim to reduce the level of aggresiveness to an acceptable level, (Current human mind doesn't allow for utopian societies). I try to help the cause by having a certain, more open mindset. Doesn't mean that personally I am flawless in the term of public relations, noone is. 

We make mistakes, we learn. More importantly we can't learn without making mistakes, and sometimes we need more than one mistake to learn, it's on the brain. 


Last question would be if you, you as a person, look to improve your own points of views by being more open, not closed and conservative. We need to learn to forget & forgive, not having permanent grudges.

That's my opinion.

  • Mood: Worried

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Sjru
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Just a quite shy dragonite that studies music and sound, works in Steamrep and made a stupidly big brony group on Steam.
I don't draw!, here you'll see dragonites and ponies of dragonites, cuz I love them =D
Dragonites are the best!♥

I'm generally quiet and don't start chats until I see that you are interested in me♥ , so try to break the ice! If you want to chat, just add me on Skype or Steam (But comment first!) love to make new friends ♥!

My favorite games are Dota2 and Civilization! (I only play coop on civ tho)
I love questions and stuff, so if you want don't hesitate into asking me stuff! = D

Or just go to my tumblr or ask.fm!
I also have twitter, follow me ♥


▷Twitter◁ twitter.com/#!/Sjru_st
▷Tumblr◁ sjru.tumblr.com
▷Ask.fm◁ ask.fm/Sjrust
▷FurAffinity◁ www.furaffinity.net/user/sjru
▷Weasyl◁ www.weasyl.com/profile/sjru


Hope you have a great day =3~
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:iconzekeroxblade:
ZekeroXBlade Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thanks for the watch! ^-^
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:iconsjru:
Sjru Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2015
welcomes ^^ 
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:icontechoh:
Techoh Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Thanks so much for the watch. ^^ (lol, I will definitely be able to "tell the time" from it. Get it, "watch?" As in.... Never mind, I couldn't resist making that terrible pun that had just come to mind. X3 *ded* Seriously, though, thanks. :) )
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Sjru Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2015
x3 no problem =D 
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:iconmcpzr:
MCPZR Featured By Owner Jan 11, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
I appreciate the watch. So, you found my dA through Steam, right?
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:iconsjru:
Sjru Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015
Yep
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YukiDoesArt Featured By Owner Jan 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thank you for watching! ^-^ Hope you'll like my future work! ^3^
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Sjru Featured By Owner Jan 5, 2015
Hehe welcomes :3 
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:iconcowboygineer:
Cowboygineer Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2014
Thanks for the watch!
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Sjru Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2014
welcomes ^^ 
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:icon1665kyle:
1665kyle Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2014
Yo yo Sjru! Thanks for the watch! *flufflehugs* ^w^
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:iconsjru:
Sjru Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2014
welcomesss x3 *squeee*
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Cody-Maverick Featured By Owner Dec 15, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thanks for the llama! :w00t: :hug:
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Sjru Featured By Owner Dec 18, 2014
Welcomes =3 
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Americum7 Featured By Owner Dec 9, 2014
Alway's gonna be a close friend to ya Sjru! Feel free to talk to me anytime! Rwar!
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Sjru Featured By Owner Dec 9, 2014
oky owo 
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BlakeZekky Featured By Owner Dec 8, 2014  New member Hobbyist Digital Artist
Heyyyyyy dragggyyyyy x3
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Sjru Featured By Owner Dec 9, 2014
Raaaawr heeeeeeeeey~ how'ya doing :3 
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BlakeZekky Featured By Owner Dec 9, 2014  New member Hobbyist Digital Artist
IM OK X3 computer problems
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Sjru Featured By Owner Dec 9, 2014
Aww >u< 
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